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Paul Linger

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Paul Linger, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - Codependency and relationships

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Where Paul stands

Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 386075
Experience
4 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Codependency support
  • CBT and DBT skills
  • Attachment focus

About Paul

Paul Linger is a BACP counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with four years of professional experience. He works with people facing stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, depression, grief and codependency concerns. He also supports those dealing with parenting pressures, intimacy issues, eating and body image concerns, and changes linked to career or health.

Paul draws on a range of approaches to suit each person. He uses cognitive-behavioural techniques to take on unhelpful thinking patterns and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy skills for managing intense emotions. He also works from client-centred and attachment-based ideas to focus on the person’s experience in relationships.

He has a decade of wider mental health experience, including work with autism, addictions, youth services, social care and community mental health within the NHS, alongside running a private practice. That background informs practical support for everyday difficulties and complex situations alike.

Sessions are conversational and interactive. Paul treats people with respect and sensitivity, and aims to build on strengths the client already has. He helps people set clearer boundaries, manage stress, and respond differently to difficult relationship patterns.

Costs vary by location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time. International work is not currently accepted. To begin, clients are asked to complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session via the See online therapy options button.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches used in online sessions

A few of the approaches Paul commonly uses include Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Attachment-Based Therapy. ACT helps people notice painful thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, and supports choosing actions that match personal values. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns affect current trust, closeness and boundary issues, which can be useful for people who struggle around codependency and intimacy.

He also draws on Client-Centred Therapy. That approach focuses on listening and working with the person’s own priorities, rather than imposing a fixed plan. Together the therapist and client decide which methods to use, so the approach evolves with what the client wants and needs.

Confirm the session formats before booking because the biography does not list specific options. Many people find online sessions help fit therapy into a busy week, reduce travel time, or make it easier to keep appointments around work or caregiving. Others prefer a shorter check-in when energy is low or an audio session if video feels like too much. The therapist will discuss practical arrangements and the best way to work together when you schedule the first appointment.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Family conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, trauma and abuse, depression, grief and codependency among other difficulties.

What is his therapy style like?

His style is conversational and interactive, combining cognitive-behavioural, client-centred and attachment-based ideas to suit the person’s needs.

How much experience does he have?

He has four years of professional experience as a practising counsellor and around ten years of broader work within mental health services.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is registered with the BACP and works in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the original profile does not list specific formats.

How are fees handled?

Fees vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin with him?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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