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Martha Cheesman

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Martha Cheesman, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - relationships and codependency

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Where Martha stands

Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 392231
Experience
10 years
Languages
English, Spanish
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Attachment-based work
  • Client-centred listening
  • CBT techniques

About Martha

Martha Cheesman is a BACP counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with ten years in a more specialised clinical role. She works with people facing relationship problems, addictions, trauma and abuse, anxiety and depression, and also helps with codependency and attachment difficulties. Sessions are offered in English and Spanish and she accepts international clients.

Martha describes an approach that pays attention to how thoughts, body and spirit interact. She draws on attachment-based ideas to look at how early relationships shape current patterns. She also uses client-centred listening to help people feel heard and CBT tools to tackle unhelpful thinking and behaviour.

In practice she combines talking with practical techniques. That can mean looking at patterns in relationships, identifying small changes to try, or using mindfulness and existential questions about meaning and purpose. She often focuses on issues like self-esteem, setting boundaries, and coping after loss or trauma.

Martha mentions trauma-informed work when trauma is part of the picture. She also names compassion fatigue and caregiver stress as areas she supports, alongside concerns such as eating, sleeping and parenting strain. Her style aims to balance reflection with hands-on tools people can use between sessions.

People who struggle with people-pleasing, trouble saying no, or losing themselves in relationships may find the sessions practical and direct. To start, clients use a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first session to discuss goals and next steps.

How sessions work

How her approaches translate to online work

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships influence current patterns. Online sessions using this lens can help identify repeating dynamics and practise different responses in everyday life.

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on being listened to without judgement. In video or phone sessions this supports exploration of feelings and priorities while the counsellor reflects and clarifies what matters to the client.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) breaks down the links between thoughts, feelings and actions. Online work can include short exercises between sessions, worksheets and reviewing small experiments to try in real situations.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Martha will help clients decide which methods suit their needs, goals and preferences. That choice is collaborative and can change as therapy proceeds.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm the current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy around work, caregiving or travel, allow brief check-ins when time is tight, and let people use phone-only meetings when bandwidth is low or a shorter conversation is needed.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyImago Relationship TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Spanish

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She supports people with addictions, relationship and family issues, trauma and abuse, anxiety, depression and codependency concerns among other areas.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her approach mixes attentive, client-centred listening with practical tools from CBT and attachment-based ideas to address relationship patterns.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has worked in the field for 20 years and has ten years in a more specialised clinical role.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Can she work with Spanish speakers or people abroad?

Sessions are offered in English and Spanish, and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the online therapy options button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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