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Femi Carty

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Femi Carty, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - relationships and codependency

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Where Femi stands

Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 385781
Experience
4 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Attachment-based work
  • CBT techniques
  • Telephone and video

About Femi

Femi Carty is a BACP counsellor in the United Kingdom with four years of experience. He works with people facing relationship strain, grief, parenting pressures, anxiety, depression, stress and codependency concerns. Femi also supports those dealing with addiction, trauma and intimacy-related difficulties.

Femi uses an integrative approach. That means he draws on a few different ways of working to fit the person in front of him. In sessions he will talk through thoughts, feelings and behaviours and help clients find practical strategies to use between meetings.

In the first session Femi carries out an assessment to understand current mental health and the reasons for coming to counselling. He uses that information to plan ongoing work and agree clear goals. Sessions are straightforward and focused on what a client wants to change.

He offers telephone sessions throughout the day and video sessions from 6:00pm UK time. These options are intended to make it easier to fit counselling around work and family life.

Femi treats each person as an individual and aims to build trust so people can speak openly. He discusses ways to manage difficult emotions, set boundaries, and cope with life changes in practical steps. His style is conversational and goal-focused, with space to look at deeper patterns when needed.

How sessions work

How therapeutic approaches translate to online sessions

Attachment-based work focuses on how early relationships shape current patterns. Online sessions can be used to notice how someone responds to closeness, separation and reliance in their relationships and to practice different ways of connecting or setting limits. Client-centred therapy puts the persons experience at the heart of the work. In this approach the therapist listens without judgement and helps callers name their priorities and make decisions that fit their life. Cognitive behavioural therapy, or CBT, looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and actions. Online CBT tends to use clear exercises and short practical tasks to change unhelpful thinking and behaviour day to day. Choosing an approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and what feels useful, then try out methods together. That collaborative process helps identify what helps most for codependency, anxiety or relationship problems. For practical matters, check the current session options before you book. The profile notes telephone sessions are available across the day and video sessions after 6:00pm UK time; confirm whether those remain the formats offered. Online sessions can fit into a lunch break or an evening, can avoid travel time, and may make it easier to keep consistent appointments while balancing work and family life.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesGriefParenting issuesDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Jungian TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Can he help with people-pleasing and codependency?

Yes. He lists codependency and relationship issues among the concerns he works with and will explore patterns of putting others first.

What is his approach in sessions?

He uses an integrative style drawing on attachment-based, client-centred and cognitive behavioural methods to suit the persons needs.

How much experience does he have?

He has four years of counselling experience working with issues such as anxiety, depression, grief and addiction.

Is he registered with a professional body in the UK?

He is listed with the BACP as provided in his profile and practises in the United Kingdom.

Do sessions take place in other languages?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats does he offer?

He offers telephone sessions throughout the day and video sessions from 6:00pm UK time; confirm current options before booking.

How does payment work?

Cost varies with location and sessions are provided through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin counselling with him?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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