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Sam Agnew

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Sam Agnew, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - codependency and trauma

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Where Sam stands

Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 394406
Experience
9 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Codependency patterns
  • Trauma and abuse
  • ACT CBT DBT approaches

About Sam

Sam Agnew is a BACP counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with nine years of experience. She works with people facing stress, anxiety, addiction, trauma and relationship and intimacy concerns. Sam also supports those dealing with ADHD, grief, career change and codependency related patterns.

Her approach combines Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based work and client-centred listening. Sessions aim to help people notice unhelpful patterns, clarify values and try small, practical changes. Sam uses cognitive and emotion-focused ideas when they suit the person's goals.

She has worked with clients around early life trauma, PTSD, addictions and emotional neglect. Sam also has experience with LGBTQ issues, autism-related coping, and complex grief. That background informs how she helps people who keep putting others first or struggle to say no.

In practice Sam focuses on clear talk and collaborative planning. Conversations look at how thoughts and behaviours keep problems going, and then explore alternatives the person can test in everyday life. She draws on DBT skills for emotion regulation when needed.

People who choose Sam can expect straightforward conversation about practical steps. She asks about what matters to the person and sets short-term targets together. The work is paced according to what the person can manage while juggling other life demands.

How sessions work

How Sam uses ACT, attachment work and CBT online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice the thoughts and feelings that drive reactive behaviour and then choose actions based on personal values. It is often useful for someone who keeps putting others first or who feels stuck by worry or avoidance.

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current patterns. It can help people who struggle with closeness, fear of abandonment or repeated relationship cycles to understand and try new ways of relating.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing practical changes in behaviour. This approach can support work on anxiety, sleep, and day-to-day coping skills.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. Sam will talk with the person about goals, preferences and how problems show up, then agree a plan together. That agreement can change as progress or needs shift, so the choice of methods is collaborative.

If you plan to use online sessions, confirm the available session formats before booking. The practical benefits often include fitting appointments around work or family, shorter check-ins when life is busy, and not needing to travel. Discussing how sessions will fit into everyday life is part of the first meeting so the plan works for the person’s routine.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyHypnotherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

9+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she work with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, addiction, trauma, relationship and intimacy issues, plus related areas such as ADHD, grief and codependency patterns.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Sam blends Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based work and client-centred listening with cognitive and emotion-focused tools.

How long has she practised?

She has nine years of professional experience working with people on a range of mental health and relationship concerns.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

Yes, she is open to working with international clients.

How are sessions arranged and what do they cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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