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Gabriel (Gabor) Bene

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Gabriel (Gabor) Bene, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - relationships and anxiety

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Where Gabriel stands

Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 395410
Experience
6 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Codependency issues
  • Cognitive behavioural work
  • Attachment-informed approach

About Gabriel

Gabriel (Gabor) Bene is a BACP counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with six years of experience. He works with adults facing stress, anxiety, depression and relationship struggles, and he lists codependency among his focus areas. Gabriel also supports people dealing with trauma, addiction, grief, sleep and eating concerns, and difficulties with self-esteem or career changes.

He uses practical conversation and evidence-informed techniques to help clients notice patterns that keep them stuck. Sessions tend to focus on what is happening now, how past attachment experiences shape current relationships, and small changes that make daily life easier. Gabriel draws on cognitive behavioural methods alongside client-centred and emotionally-focused ideas to help people try different ways of relating and responding.

His background includes study in psychology and further postgraduate work in CBT approaches, and he is registered with the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists (BACP). That registration is the professional detail he lists when describing his practice.

People who come to him for codependency-related concerns often want clearer boundaries, less people-pleasing, or help coping with someone else’s moods or substance use. Gabriel works with each person to identify priorities and practical steps rather than promising a quick fix. Sessions look at feelings, behaviour and the choices available in daily life.

International clients may be accepted and sessions are conducted in English. Fees vary by location and are billed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time. To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first appointment.

How sessions work

Approaches you might use in online sessions

Gabriel works with cognitive behavioural and attachment-informed ways of working alongside client-centred ideas. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) focuses on the links between thoughts, feelings and behaviours and helps people practise new ways of responding to anxiety, low mood or unhelpful habits. Attachment-based work looks at how early relationship patterns show up today and helps people understand why they seek closeness or avoid it, which can be useful for codependency and relationship issues. Client-centred therapy emphasises listening and the person's own pace, supporting people to find their own solutions rather than being told what to do.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. Gabriel will discuss goals, preferences and what feels most useful, and then try different methods in collaboration with the client. That helps him and the client see what makes a practical difference in day-to-day life.

The therapist's profile does not list specific online session formats, so please confirm the available options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time so people can schedule appointments around work or caring commitments. Registered or accredited professionals use these options to make therapy more convenient while working on the same issues they would cover in face-to-face sessions.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseAnger managementCompassion fatigue

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he work with related to putting others first?

He lists codependency alongside relationship difficulties, people-pleasing, and coping with someone else’s moods or substance use.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He combines cognitive behavioural techniques with client-centred and emotionally-focused ideas to focus on present patterns and practical change.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has six years of experience working as a counsellor and psychotherapist in the United Kingdom.

What professional credential does he hold?

He is registered with the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists (BACP).

Can I work with him if I live outside the UK?

Sessions are offered to international clients and are conducted in English.

Which session formats are available?

The original profile does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are sessions billed and what do they cost?

Fees vary with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to try sessions?

Start by selecting the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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