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Rachel Xuereb

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Rachel Xuereb, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - relationships and anxiety

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Where Rachel stands

Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 382913
Experience
7 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
  • Attachment-based work
  • Client-centred approach

About Rachel

Rachel Xuereb is a BACP counsellor with seven years' experience based in the United Kingdom. She works with adults on common pressures such as stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship strain, depression, grief, parenting stress and issues around intimacy. Rachel also supports people dealing with career challenges, caregiving strain and codependency patterns where someone keeps putting others first to their own cost.

She describes an integrative style that adapts to what each person brings. Sessions look at how and when a problem shows up, and what keeps it repeating. That helps people understand the patterns behind worry, anger, avoidance or people-pleasing behaviour.

Rachel uses a mix of well-known approaches to match the task at hand. That can include talking through thoughts and behaviours, noticing unhelpful patterns from early relationships, and working with values to guide decisions in difficult situations. Practical tools are used alongside reflective discussion.

In the therapy room she aims to identify root causes and then work towards acceptance and change at a pace that suits the client. This can involve learning simpler ways to set boundaries, manage difficult feelings, sleep better, or cope with loss and change.

Sessions are offered in English in the UK. If someone wants to explore next steps they are invited to use the site matching process to book an initial session and see which arrangements best fit their life.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and how they work online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on values and committed action. It helps when someone feels stuck or keeps avoiding difficult feelings by identifying what matters and taking small steps towards those things.

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current patterns. It can be useful for people who repeat the same relationship dynamics, struggle with closeness, or feel abandoned and empty.

Client-Centred Therapy prioritises the person’s own pace and perspective. It offers reflective listening and space to make sense of feelings before moving to practical changes.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals and preferences and then choose methods together. That collaborative process helps decide whether to focus on behaviour change, relationship patterns, values, or a mix of these.

Confirm the exact session options before booking as formats are not listed here. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when needed. Registered or accredited professionals can guide how to adapt exercises for video or audio sessions and how to pace work so it fits everyday life.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesSelf esteemDepressionCoaching

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Does she help with people-pleasing and codependency?

Yes. She works with codependency patterns and helps people who put others first at their own expense.

What is her way of working in sessions?

She uses an integrative approach that adapts to the person. Sessions blend practical tools and reflective conversation to address how problems show up.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has seven years of experience working as a counsellor in the UK.

What accreditation does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the BACP and works from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can she work with international clients?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions arranged and paid for?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin therapy with her?

Start by selecting the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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