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Belinda Gray

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Belinda Gray, BACP

United Kingdom

Counsellor - relationships and addiction support

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Where Belinda stands

Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 393947
Experience
14 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • ACT and CBT
  • Attachment focus
  • Codependency support

About Belinda

Belinda Gray is a counsellor registered with the BACP and has 14 years of experience. She works with adults who are dealing with stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship difficulties and trauma. She also supports people facing grief, low self‑esteem, sleep and eating problems, and life changes such as career shifts or parenting challenges.

Her way of working is straightforward. Sessions focus on what is happening now and what the person wants to change. She uses conversational therapy to help people notice patterns, make practical decisions, and try new ways of responding to old problems.

Belinda often draws on cognitive behavioural techniques to spot unhelpful thinking and test out different behaviours. She also uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy approaches to help people identify values and take steps that matter to them. Attachment‑based ideas are used when relationship patterns and intimacy issues are central concerns.

People who come to her for codependency, abandonment or communication problems are helped to name the patterns that keep repeating. She works with those coping with bipolar symptoms, ADHD, or anger to build clearer routines and manageable strategies. Work around addictions and trauma includes short practical steps alongside reflection on how past events shape current choices.

Sessions are conversational and practical. Belinda asks straightforward questions, helps set small goals, and reviews progress each week. For anyone unsure how to begin, she guides through the initial steps and what to expect from early sessions.

How sessions work

Approaches used in online sessions and what they do

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters to them and take small actions in line with those values rather than getting stuck in fighting unwanted thoughts. It can help with anxiety, avoidance and issues like codependency by shifting focus from control to meaningful action.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) breaks problems into thoughts, feelings and behaviours. It teaches practical skills to test unhelpful beliefs and build new routines for mood, sleep and coping with cravings or anger.

Attachment‑based ideas look at how early relationship patterns influence current intimacy and communication. This can be useful for people who keep putting others first or who struggle with trust and closeness.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk through your situation, goals and preferences and suggest which methods to try first. You can feed back what helps and what does not, and the plan can be adjusted as work progresses.

Confirm which session formats are offered before you book, as options are not specified here. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy around a busy life, allow quieter check‑ins, or avoid travel time. Registered or accredited professionals often use conversational sessions that focus on skills practice, goal setting and weekly review to make progress within everyday routines.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

14+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

Belinda works with stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, low self‑esteem, sleep and eating problems, career and parenting concerns, and codependency.

What is her therapeutic style like?

She uses conversational, practical therapy that combines CBT and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy ideas with attachment‑based thinking. Sessions focus on noticing patterns and trying different responses.

How much experience does she have?

She has 14 years of professional experience working with adults on the types of concerns listed above.

Is she registered with a professional body in the UK?

She is registered with the BACP and practices in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She accepts international clients; check any time zone or local service considerations when scheduling.

How are sessions arranged and what formats are available?

Confirm current session formats before booking as they are not specified here; the site booking process will list the options offered for scheduling.

How much do sessions cost and how do payments work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time; exact fees are shown during the booking process.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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