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Alexander Szendrei

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Alexander Szendrei, BACP

United Kingdom

Counsellor - relationships and anxiety

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Where Alexander stands

Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 397585
Experience
4 years
Languages
English, Czech, Slovak
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Attachment-based work
  • CBT techniques
  • Narrative approaches

About Alexander

Alexander Szendrei is a counsellor registered with the BACP and has four years of practice in the United Kingdom. He works with adults who are struggling with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, grief, intimacy concerns, addiction, codependency and related issues. He talks plainly about what is causing strain and helps people identify practical ways to cope.

He uses a psychodynamic lens to look at how past experiences shape current feelings and behaviour. This helps when patterns from childhood repeat in adult relationships. He also draws on client-centred ideas to listen closely and make the room feel straightforward and respectful.

Alexander also uses cognitive behavioural techniques to help people notice unhelpful thoughts and test different ways of acting. Narrative and existential ideas are used when people want to explore meaning, values and the stories they tell about themselves. He blends these approaches rather than relying on just one method.

Sessions focus on simple, concrete steps alongside deeper reflection. Conversations often include noticing patterns, practising boundary skills, and trying out new responses between meetings. He aims to make work in therapy something that fits into everyday life, not a list of abstract tasks.

Alexander works in English, Czech and Slovak. He asks new clients to use a short questionnaire and an initial booking step to set up the first session. Costs vary by location and are provided through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How sessions work

How his approaches work for online sessions

Alexander commonly uses attachment-based ideas to look at patterns in relationships and how early bonds affect current reactions. This approach helps when someone keeps losing themselves in relationships or struggles with closeness and trust.

He also draws on client-centred practice, which focuses on listening and reflecting back what matters most to the client. That method can help people clarify their feelings and decide on immediate next steps. Cognitive behavioural techniques are used to identify unhelpful thoughts and try small behavioural changes that reduce anxiety or improve boundaries.

Choosing the right mix of approaches is a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss goals, try different methods, and adapt over time based on what helps most for the client’s problems and preferences.

The practical advantages of working online should be confirmed with him before booking, as the profile does not list specific session formats. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, allow for shorter check-ins when needed, or remove travel time so a session can occur between commitments. Check the therapist’s session options to see which format suits your schedule and needs.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationVisually impairedWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Czech, Slovak

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Can he help with people-pleasing and codependency?

Yes. He lists codependency, people-pleasing and boundaries among the concerns he works with and addresses these in sessions.

What is his approach in sessions?

He blends psychodynamic, client-centred and cognitive behavioural ideas, using discussion and practical tasks to change patterns and test new ways of behaving.

How much experience does he have?

He has four years of counselling experience as recorded in his profile.

Where is he based and what credential does he hold?

He works in the United Kingdom and is registered with the BACP.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English, Czech and Slovak.

Can people from other countries work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

What are session formats and how much do they cost?

The profile states costs vary with location and that sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time; please confirm the session formats offered before booking.

How do I begin a booking or first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule your first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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