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Nigel Jordan

Counsellor profile

Nigel Jordan, NCPS

United Kingdom

Counsellor - relationships and trauma

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Where Nigel stands

Credentials
NCPS
Registration
NCPS, United Kingdom / NCS21-00867
Experience
16 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Attachment-based work
  • CBT techniques
  • Emotion-focused methods

About Nigel

Nigel Jordan is a counsellor registered with NCPS in the United Kingdom and has 16 years of experience. He works with people facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, depression and grief.

Nigel uses a direct, conversational style in sessions. He listens to what matters most and helps people notice patterns that keep causing pain. He talks through practical ways to manage distress and improve everyday thinking and behaviour.

His background blends several approaches. Attachment-based ideas guide how he looks at relationship patterns and trust. Cognitive behavioural techniques are used to spot unhelpful thoughts and test them in real life. Emotionally-focused ways of working help people name and make sense of strong feelings.

Nigel also draws on existential questions about meaning and choice when people feel stuck. He adapts methods from client-centred practice to keep sessions person-focused rather than formulaic. This mix lets him move between short-term problem solving and deeper relational work.

People come to Nigel for a wide range of concerns, including abandonment, attachment issues, communication difficulties, codependency, addiction-related problems, chronic illness and caregiving stress. He offers straightforward discussion about goals and next steps, and encourages practical skills alongside reflection.

How sessions work

How Nigel’s approaches are used in online sessions

Nigel often uses attachment-based ideas and cognitive behavioural techniques in online work. Attachment-based work looks at how past relationship patterns affect current connections and helps identify ways to build steadier emotional responses. Cognitive behavioural therapy focuses on spotting unhelpful thoughts and testing different responses to reduce anxiety and low mood.

Deciding which approach fits best is a collaborative process. Nigel will talk with each person about their goals, what has or has not helped before, and how much practical skill-building versus emotional processing is wanted. He adjusts methods as the work unfolds so the approach matches current needs and preferences.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm the session formats available before booking. The practical benefits often include easier fitting of sessions into a working day, fewer travel demands and the option of shorter check-ins when circumstances call for them. Nigel will discuss how to structure remote sessions so they fit with everyday life and the aims you bring to therapy.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationVisually impairedWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

16+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Nigel help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, depression and grief, among other issues such as codependency and addiction-related problems.

How would he describe his therapeutic style?

His style is conversational and practical, aiming to identify patterns, clarify feelings and try out small changes between sessions.

How much experience does he have?

Nigel has 16 years of experience working in clinical and private settings, using a mix of therapeutic approaches.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is registered with NCPS and practises in the United Kingdom.

Can sessions be held in languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does he work with international clients?

He accepts international clients.

How are sessions arranged and what about cost?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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