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Jonetta Wakely

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Jonetta Wakely, LPC

Oklahoma

LPC in Oklahoma - Relationships and Codependency

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Where Jonetta stands

Credentials
LPC
License
LPC, Oklahoma / LPC04598
NPI
1215168414
Experience
20 years
Languages
English
Location
Oklahoma

About

  • CBT techniques
  • DBT skills
  • Attachment focus

About Jonetta

Jonetta Wakely is an LPC - Licensed Professional Counselor in Oklahoma with 20 years of experience. She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family concerns, trauma and abuse, parenting struggles, anger, self-esteem, career issues, and codependency. She describes clients as the experts on their own lives and focuses on practical choices rather than labeling actions as simply right or wrong.

Her approach starts with listening to what matters to each person. She asks clients to explain what's important and what they want to change. Sessions focus on clear, usable steps that fit day-to-day life. Conversations center on what will work better for the person, not on assigning blame.

Jonetta uses evidence-based methods that aim to change thinking, emotional responses, and behavior. She blends techniques from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy with attention to attachment and meaning. Mindfulness practices are offered to help reduce reactivity and increase present-moment awareness.

Clients can expect straightforward feedback and collaborative planning. The work often includes identifying unhelpful patterns, practicing new ways of coping, and trying small experiments between sessions. Jonetta aims to help people make more effective choices that lead to a more manageable life.

Her background includes focused study in CBT and DBT approaches. She emphasizes practical skills and helpful perspectives drawn from attachment and existential ideas. Jonetta works in English and accepts international clients; she asks people to confirm session formats before booking.

How sessions work

How CBT, DBT and attachment ideas work online

CBT helps people identify and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. In practice this means noticing patterns, testing them with small experiments, and trying different responses to see what helps with anxiety, low mood, or relationship stress.

DBT focuses on skills for managing intense emotions and improving decision making. It includes attention to emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness, which can aid people who get overwhelmed or struggle with strong reactions.

Attachment-based ideas look at how early relationship patterns shape current expectations and reactions. This approach helps people notice recurring relationship patterns and make different choices about closeness, boundaries, and trust.

Finding the best approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with each person to choose methods that fit their goals, needs, and preferences. That may mean mixing skills-based work with reflection about relationship patterns.

Session formats are not specified in the profile, so confirm current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, shorten travel time, or allow for quick check-ins when needed. Licensed professionals can adapt CBT and DBT exercises to work in remote sessions and help clients practice skills between meetings.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

Parenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficulties

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Listed in

Oklahoma

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address related to codependency?

She works with relationship patterns like people-pleasing, trouble saying no, and living around someone else's moods or drinking. Codependency is listed among her focus areas.

What is her style in therapy?

She starts by listening to what matters to the client and treats them as the expert on their life. The work emphasizes practical steps and choices rather than judging past actions.

How much experience does she have?

She has 20 years of counseling experience working with stress, anxiety, trauma, depression, relationship issues, and related concerns.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

Jonetta is an LPC - Licensed Professional Counselor licensed in Oklahoma and practices from that state.

Which languages are offered for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking because formats are not specified in the profile.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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