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Itay Lahav

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Itay Lahav, PACFA

Australia

PACFA counsellor - relationships and trauma

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Where Itay stands

Credentials
PACFA
Registration
PACFA, Australia / 23412
Experience
22 years
Languages
English
Location
Australia

About

  • Attachment-based work
  • Psychodynamic therapy
  • Client-centred approach

About Itay

Itay Lahav is a PACFA-credentialed practitioner with 22 years of clinical experience in Australia. She helps people dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, sleep problems and depression. She also works with issues such as attachment difficulties, codependency and commitment worries.

Her approach draws on psychodynamic ideas alongside attachment-based work. Conversations look at patterns that keep repeating in relationships and how early connections shape current behaviour. Sessions also include client-centred elements that focus on the person’s immediate concerns and experience in the room.

Itay can work in shorter, focused blocks or in longer, in-depth therapy depending on what the person needs. She pays attention to body-mind links when physical symptoms like chronic pain or sleep disruption are present. This can include talking through how stress shows up in the body as well as in thoughts and moods.

People often come when they feel stuck in repeating relationship roles, have trouble saying no, or are living around another person’s moods or crises. Therapy is used to look at those patterns, the beliefs that sustain them, and practical ways to try different responses.

Her background includes advanced clinical training in psychodynamic psychotherapy and many years of practice with personality-related difficulties and trauma. She aims to build a clear working plan with each person and to review progress over time.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and working online

Itay uses attachment-based therapy to look at how early relationships influence current ways of relating. This approach helps when someone notices repeated patterns in close relationships or struggles with trust and closeness.

She also draws on psychodynamic therapy, which focuses on long-standing patterns and underlying conflicts that show up in feelings and behaviour. Psychodynamic work can be useful for people wanting to understand why they repeat certain relationship roles or feel stuck despite trying to change.

Finding the best approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and practical needs and together decide whether shorter focused work or more in-depth therapy is appropriate. That decision is reviewed as therapy progresses so the plan can change if needed.

The biography does not specify which session formats are offered, so check the current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit appointments around work or family time, reduce travel, or allow a shorter check-in when that is helpful. Different formats also change practical things such as whether you are on camera or using audio only, and those details can be arranged to suit everyday needs.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseSleeping disordersDepression

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

22+ years

Listed in

Australia

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Can she help with people-pleasing and boundary problems?

Yes. The profile lists codependency, attachment issues and communication problems as areas she works with. Therapy focuses on the patterns that make it hard to say no and practical steps to try different responses.

What is her therapy style like?

She uses psychodynamic, attachment-based and client-centred approaches. That means she looks at recurring relationship patterns, the role of early attachments, and the person’s present experience in sessions.

How much experience does she have?

She has 22 years of professional experience in Australia. Her background includes advanced clinical training in psychodynamic psychotherapy.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

The profile shows PACFA as her credential and lists Australia as her location.

Does she offer sessions in other languages?

Sessions are offered in English only.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location. Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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