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Toni Hernalsteen

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Toni Hernalsteen, LMSW

Michigan

LMSW - Relationships and Addictions

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Where Toni stands

Credentials
LMSW
License
LMSW, Michigan / 6801090847
NPI
1558710343
Experience
17 years
Languages
English
Location
Michigan

About

  • Anxiety and depression
  • Addictions support
  • Values-based ACT work

About Toni

Toni Hernalsteen is a Licensed Master Social Worker (LMSW) in Michigan with 17 years of clinical experience. She works with adults on common life stresses such as anxiety, depression, grief, relationship struggles, addictions, and codependency-related concerns. Toni also helps people facing career strain, caregiving stress, sleep problems, and challenges tied to chronic illness.

Toni uses straightforward conversations to help people notice patterns that keep them stuck. She often draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to identify unhelpful thoughts and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to clarify values and next steps. Motivational Interviewing and mindfulness techniques are also part of her approach when they fit a person's goals.

Her style is practical and problem-focused. Sessions aim to surface what matters to the client and then set concrete steps to change behaviors or reactions. Toni pays attention to how relationship dynamics and past loss affect day-to-day choices and coping.

She has experience supporting people dealing with domestic violence, substance concerns, trauma, and major life transitions such as divorce or aging. Toni also assists people working through body image issues, abandonment worries, and commitment concerns.

To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session. Cost varies by location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not accepted at this time.

How sessions work

How Toni integrates evidence-based approaches in online sessions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice their values and take small steps toward them. It is useful for anxiety, avoidance, and when someone feels stuck in relationship patterns. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and behavior to reduce distress and change unhelpful habits. It often helps with depression, worry, and sleep problems. Motivational Interviewing is a conversational approach that boosts readiness to change by exploring personal reasons for taking action.

Toni approaches selecting a method as a collaborative process. She will discuss your goals and preferences, try approaches that fit those aims, and adjust the plan if something is not working. Finding the right mix of methods is part of the work together rather than a one-time decision.

Confirm current session options before booking because formats are not specified in the biography. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time. Many people find remote work helpful for keeping appointments around work or caregiving duties, and it lets the therapist and client focus on practical steps that transfer into daily life.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

17+ years

Listed in

Michigan

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Can she help with people-pleasing and boundaries?

Yes. She works with relationship patterns like people-pleasing and helps clients practice clearer boundaries.

What kind of therapy style does she use?

She blends Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy with motivational interviewing and mindfulness tools.

How much experience does she have?

She has 17 years of professional work experience in clinical settings with individuals, couples, and groups.

What are her credentials and where does she practice?

She is an LMSW (Licensed Master Social Worker) practicing in Michigan.

Do sessions take place in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English and she does not accept international clients currently.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking as the biography does not specify formats.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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