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Mary Stein

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Mary Stein, LMFT

California

LMFT - Relationships and Codependency

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Where Mary stands

Credentials
LMFT
License
LMFT, California / 35416
NPI
1982804514
Experience
27 years
Languages
English
Location
California

About

  • CBT methods
  • Client-centered work
  • Mindfulness practices

About Mary

Mary Stein is a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with 27 years of experience. She works with adults facing anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, grief, relationship strain, and codependency concerns. Mary also helps people dealing with sleep and eating issues, parenting stress, anger, low self-esteem, career changes, and caregiver fatigue.

Mary keeps things direct and practical in sessions. She listens to what has brought someone in and then outlines steps to address those problems. Conversations focus on changing unhelpful thinking and behaviors, building clearer boundaries, and practicing new ways of coping. Her style is interactive and respectful, with straightforward feedback and collaborative planning.

Her background includes private practice, clinical supervision in adolescent residential programs, and work at a domestic violence agency. That mix of settings informs how she approaches difficult topics like trauma, addiction, and family conflict. She draws on methods that emphasize understanding personal meaning while also teaching concrete skills to manage symptoms.

Therapy may include attention to present-day coping and to how past family patterns influence current choices. Techniques come from client-centered work, cognitive behavioral methods, dialectical skills, existential reflection, and mindfulness practices. Sessions aim to help people notice patterns, try small changes, and evaluate what helps in daily life.

Mary earned a master’s degree in counseling from Phillips Graduate Institute and became licensed as an LMFT in California in 1999. She practices in California and conducts work in English.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and online sessions

Mary often combines client-centered work with cognitive behavioral therapy to address everyday problems. Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and working from the client's perspective to clarify goals and strengths. Cognitive behavioral therapy helps people identify unhelpful thoughts and try different behaviors to reduce anxiety or depression.

She also uses elements of dialectical behavior therapy, which teaches concrete skills for emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and clearer communication. These skills are useful for managing strong emotions, relationship conflict, and patterns like people-pleasing or codependency. Choosing the right mix of approaches is a collaborative process; the therapist and client look at problems, goals, and preferences and then decide what to try together.

Confirm current session options before booking, as formats are not listed here. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life: sessions can reduce travel time, allow shorter check-ins on a tight schedule, or let conversations happen from a quiet, comfortable spot. The therapist will discuss practical logistics and which approach or session rhythm best fits daily routines during the first planning conversation.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

27+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Mary address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, grief, relationship problems, codependency, and related issues such as sleep, eating, parenting stress, and caregiver strain.

What is her therapeutic approach and style?

Her approach is interactive and client-centered while also using practical tools from CBT, DBT skills, existential reflection, and mindfulness to change thoughts and behaviors.

How much experience does she have?

Mary has 27 years of clinical experience and has worked in private practice, adolescent residential supervision, and a domestic violence agency.

What are her credentials and where does she practice?

She is a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and practices in California.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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