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Jacqueline Selby

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Jacqueline Selby, BACP

United Kingdom

Counsellor for anxiety and relationship patterns

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Where Jacqueline stands

Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 27987
Experience
15 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Person-centred therapy
  • Attachment-based work
  • Mindfulness techniques

About Jacqueline

Jacqueline Selby is a counsellor registered with the BACP and has 15 years of experience in mental health work in the United Kingdom. She supports adults with common concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues and codependency. Jacqueline also works with people facing grief, career change, parenting stress and compassion fatigue.

She uses a person-centred way of working that focuses on listening and on the client’s own resources. Sessions centre on what matters to the person and on small, practical steps they can try between meetings. Jacqueline also draws on attachment-based ideas to notice patterns in relationships and on mindfulness to help manage difficult thoughts and feelings.

People who meet her often talk through their immediate worries first. They then look at where repeated patterns come from and what gets in the way of setting boundaries or making changes. Motivational interviewing techniques can be used to build momentum when someone feels stuck or unmotivated.

Jacqueline has experience supporting a wide range of issues including addictions, body image, chronic illness, autism, adoption and foster care related concerns, and abandonment. She has worked with people across different life stages and with varied relationship challenges, helping them to identify realistic next steps.

Practical details are straightforward. Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted. Fees vary by location and sessions run on a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time. To begin, a short questionnaire is completed and a first appointment is scheduled.

How sessions work

How her approaches translate to online sessions

Jacqueline combines person-centred practice with attachment-based thinking and mindfulness work. Person-centred therapy concentrates on listening and on the individual’s strengths, helping people to name their priorities and choose small changes to try. Attachment-based ideas look at recurring patterns in relationships and help people understand why they repeat certain behaviours, which can be useful when addressing people-pleasing or difficulty saying no. Mindfulness offers simple practices to manage overwhelming thoughts and to steady attention during stressful moments.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. Jacqueline will discuss goals and preferences with each client and together they decide which methods to try first. This is a collaborative process that can be adjusted as therapy continues and aims to match the approach to the person’s needs and pace.

Practical benefits of online sessions include fitting therapy into a busy life and reducing travel time so appointments can be easier to keep. Some people prefer shorter check-ins while others use a full session to focus on a single problem; these options can be discussed when booking. Confirm the specific session formats offered before you book so you know whether phone or video options are available for your situation.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Which concerns does she commonly help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship problems, codependency and related issues such as grief, parenting strain and compassion fatigue.

What is her therapeutic style like?

She practises person-centred therapy with attention to attachment and mindfulness. Sessions focus on listening, practical steps and noticing relationship patterns.

How much experience does she have?

She has 15 years of professional experience in mental health work supporting people in a range of concerns.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with the BACP and is based in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

International clients are accepted and sessions are offered in English.

What session formats does she offer?

Please confirm current session options before booking as formats are not specified here; the booking process will list available ways to meet.

How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?

Fees vary by location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I get started with a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first appointment.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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