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Jacqueline Oshiver

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Jacqueline Oshiver, LMFT, LCSW

New Jersey

LMFT and LCSW - relationships and codependency focused

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Where Jacqueline stands

Credentials
LMFT, LCSW
License
LCSW, New Jersey / 44SC00857900; LMFT, New Jersey / 37FI00197000; LMFT, Maine / MF6072; LMFT, New Mexico / CMF0217761 ; LCSW, New York / 035353; LMFT, Pennsylvania / MF000713
NPI
1427101476
Experience
40 years
Languages
English
Location
New Jersey

About

  • Client-centered care
  • CBT for patterns
  • Mindfulness practices

About Jacqueline

Jacqueline Oshiver is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, practicing in New Jersey with forty years of experience. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, grief, depression, addiction, and codependency concerns. Sessions are conducted in English and shaped around practical steps clients can use in everyday life.

Her main approach is client-centered care that keeps the relationship between therapist and client equal. Jacqueline blends that with cognitive behavioral tools to change thought and behavior patterns. She also uses emotionally focused ideas when relationships or attachment wounds are central to the issue.

In sessions she uses mindfulness practices and motivational interviewing to support decision making and build present-moment awareness. This can look like short in-session exercises, reflection on patterns, and small experiments to try between meetings. She draws on psychodynamic ideas when family of origin, abandonment, or attachment issues need deeper exploration.

Jacqueline has worked with people dealing with parenting stress, blended family issues, caregiver strain, intimacy and commitment concerns, and problems tied to substance use. She names aging and geriatric issues, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and compassion fatigue among her focus areas. Her approach emphasizes practical coping skills alongside attention to emotional experience.

Clients can expect a collaborative process that aims to improve functioning at home, work, and relationships. The work often involves clarifying patterns, practicing boundary skills, and reducing overwhelm so daily life feels more manageable.

How sessions work

How Jacqueline’s approaches translate to online work

Jacqueline commonly uses client-centered methods and cognitive behavioral therapy in her work. Client-centered work focuses on listening carefully and aligning the work to the person's concerns, which helps when navigating relationship and codependency patterns. CBT looks at thoughts and behaviors and supports structured steps and experiments to change unhelpful cycles, which is useful for anxiety, depression, and addiction-related habits.

She also draws on emotionally focused ideas when attachment, abandonment, or couple dynamics are central. That approach clarifies emotional responses and patterns in relationships so people can practice new ways of relating. The therapist will discuss which mix of methods fits best and will work collaboratively to set goals and try approaches that suit the client's needs and preferences.

Session formats are not listed in the biography, so confirm current online options before booking. In general, remote sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a workday, reduce travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when needed. Jacqueline aims to help clients translate skills practiced in sessions into everyday life, regardless of how the meetings are arranged.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

40+ years

Listed in

New Jersey, Maine, New Mexico, New York, Pennsylvania

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, depression, addictions, and codependency concerns among other topics.

How would she describe her therapeutic style?

She uses a client-centered approach combined with cognitive behavioral techniques, emotional work around relationships, mindfulness, and motivational interviewing.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Jacqueline brings forty years of experience working with adults in therapy settings and in university teaching roles.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She holds LMFT and LCSW credentials and practices in New Jersey with licensure noted as NJ LMFT and NY LCSW.

Which languages are used in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English only.

Can people outside the U.S. work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions arranged and paid for?

Costs vary with location; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What should I do to begin working together?

Choose the See online therapy options button, fill out the short matching questionnaire, and schedule the first session.

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