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Emma Alban

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Emma Alban, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - relationships and coping

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Where Emma stands

Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 89250
Experience
17 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Attachment-based work
  • CBT techniques
  • Mindfulness practice

About Emma

Emma Alban is a BACP counsellor based in the United Kingdom with 17 years' experience. She works with people facing stress, anxiety, depression and relationship and family difficulties. She also supports clients dealing with grief, trauma, issues around intimacy and codependency-related patterns.

Emma takes a conversational, person-centred approach. Sessions are focused on what matters to the client and on understanding how past experiences shape present relationships. She uses practical tools alongside reflective discussion to help people notice unhelpful patterns and try different ways of relating.

Her background draws on attachment ideas and cognitive behavioural techniques. That means she looks at how early bonds influence current reactions, while also using clearer strategies to manage thoughts, moods and behaviours. Mindfulness and existential perspectives inform conversations about meaning, values and choices.

People come to Emma when they are tired of putting others first, struggling to set boundaries, or stuck in cycles of people-pleasing and caretaking. She also works with clients facing life changes such as bereavement, career shifts and chronic health challenges.

Her style is interactive and respectful. Sessions involve listening, gentle challenge and practical suggestions to test between-sessions changes. To start, clients complete a short questionnaire so initial sessions can focus quickly on priorities and immediate concerns.

How sessions work

How her approaches translate to online work

Emma often combines attachment-based ideas with cognitive behavioural techniques. Attachment-based work looks at how early relationships shape current patterns of closeness and boundaries, which can help when someone keeps putting others first. Cognitive behavioural work focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and trying small behaviour changes to reduce anxiety, low mood and people-pleasing patterns.

She also brings person-centred listening into sessions, which means the conversation is guided by the client's concerns and preferences rather than a fixed agenda. Deciding which mix of approaches to use is collaborative - the therapist and client work together to choose methods that fit the client's goals and day-to-day life.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm the current online options before booking. Many people find online work helpful because it can fit more easily around work and family commitments, allow shorter check-ins when needed, or remove travel time. The focus is practical: arranging sessions so they slot into everyday life and support steady steps toward clearer boundaries, better mood management and improved coping.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

17+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and family difficulties, trauma, and issues linked to codependency and intimacy.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is conversational and person-centred, combining discussion with practical techniques from different approaches.

How much experience does she have?

She has 17 years' experience working as a qualified counsellor in the United Kingdom.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and works from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK book sessions?

She is not currently accepting international clients.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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