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Darryl Khan

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Darryl Khan, LMHC

Hawaii

LMHC - Anxiety and Relationship concerns

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Where Darryl stands

Credentials
LMHC
License
LMHC, Hawaii / MHC-712
NPI
1598257826
Experience
20 years
Languages
English
Location
Hawaii

About

  • CBT techniques
  • DBT skills
  • Codependency work

About Darryl

Darryl Khan is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in Hawaii with 20 years of clinical experience. He works with people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship problems, addiction, and other life changes. Darryl also supports those coping with grief, parenting strain, work and career issues, and challenges linked to attention differences and mood disorders.

He uses clear, action-oriented methods in sessions. Clients spend time identifying patterns that keep them stuck and learning practical skills to change those patterns. He often draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy techniques to reduce distress and improve daily functioning.

Across his career Darryl has worked with people who have been involved with systems like child welfare, family court, and public safety departments. That background shapes how he talks through practical problems and paperwork, and how he plans realistic steps forward with clients.

Sessions focus on concrete goals such as managing intense emotions, improving communication, setting boundaries, and reducing substance-related harms. He also helps people address codependency patterns like chronic people-pleasing, trouble saying no, or losing a sense of self in relationships.

Darryl trained at Gonzaga University where he earned a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology in 2003. He continues to use evidence-informed approaches to help people manage symptoms and rebuild routines after disruption.

How sessions work

How his approaches translate to online work

CBT focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors. Online sessions can teach practical CBT tools such as thought records, activity scheduling, and behavior experiments to reduce anxiety and depressive symptoms.

DBT teaches emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness skills. In remote sessions clients can learn and practice DBT skills for managing intense feelings and improving relationships in day-to-day life.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will review your goals and preferences and help choose whether CBT, DBT, existential ideas, or a mix fits best. This is a collaborative decision made with attention to what you want to change and how you prefer to work.

The practical benefits of online work include fitting sessions into a busy week and reducing travel time. Because the profile does not specify session formats, confirm current session options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to schedule short check-ins, avoid lengthy commutes, and keep regular momentum while you practice new skills between meetings.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Listed in

Hawaii

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship issues, addictions, grief, parenting strain, and related concerns listed in his profile.

What is his therapy style like?

Sessions are interactive and skill-focused. He uses practical exercises from CBT and DBT to reduce symptoms and change unhelpful patterns.

How much experience does he have?

He has been practicing as a mental health counselor for about 20 years, with work dating back to a master’s degree earned in 2003.

What credential and location are listed for him?

He is an LMHC in Hawaii and practices there according to the credential information provided.

Are sessions offered in languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English only according to the profile.

Does he see international clients?

International clients are not currently accepted as stated in the profile.

How are sessions scheduled and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Start by selecting the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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