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Tom Lewis

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Tom Lewis, LPC

Missouri

Licensed Professional Counselor - Relationships and Mood

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Where Tom stands

Credentials
LPC
License
LPC, Missouri / 002023
NPI
1023243201
Experience
30 years
Languages
English
Location
Missouri

About

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  • Emotionally-Focused Therapy

About Tom

Tom Lewis is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Missouri with 30 years of experience. He works with adults on stress, anxiety, depression, relationships, intimacy, and related life concerns. He also addresses codependency, addiction, parenting strains, grief, trauma, and career questions.

Tom keeps sessions straightforward. He listens first to get a clear picture of the person in front of him. Then he uses a mix of therapy methods to match what the client needs. Conversations are informal and focused on what is practical right now.

He often helps people notice the strengths they already have and put those strengths to work. That can look like practicing clearer communication, setting small boundaries, or trying new behaviors and noticing what changes. He discusses thoughts and feelings, and then works on concrete skills that fit daily life.

Tom draws on several approaches to guide the work. He uses techniques from acceptance and commitment therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, emotionally-focused work, and client-centered methods. He also brings existential ideas when people are wrestling with meaning and direction.

Many people come for help with relationship patterns such as people-pleasing, control struggles, or trouble saying no. Others want support for mood problems, grief, or turning a career transition into a clearer next step. The focus is on practical changes a person can try between sessions.

To start, a simple intake gives a sense of priorities and goals. From there sessions focus on manageable steps, clearer choices, and making use of personal strengths.

How sessions work

How his approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice thoughts and feelings without getting stuck, then choose actions that align with their values. It can help when someone struggles with people-pleasing or feelings that stop them from acting on what matters. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on the links between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It offers practical exercises to test unhelpful thinking patterns and try new behaviors that change everyday results. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) looks at how emotions shape relationship patterns and helps people name and respond to feelings more clearly in close relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss these methods and decide together which tools fit the client’s goals and preferences. That makes sessions more collaborative and keeps the focus on what the client wants to change.

Confirm the specific session formats before booking, since the biography does not list them. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life - for example, shorter check-ins during a break, sessions without needing travel time, or using audio-only when bandwidth is limited. Licensed professionals can still use ACT, CBT, or EFT techniques effectively through remote sessions, and practical exercises can be assigned between meetings to build new habits.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteemCareer difficulties

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesAnger managementBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Avoidant personalityCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsNarcissismPersonality disordersProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

30+ years

Listed in

Missouri

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy concerns, addictions, grief, parenting strain, and related issues such as codependency and career stress.

What is his therapy style like?

Sessions are informal and client-centered. He listens first, then uses practical strategies from therapies such as ACT, CBT, and emotionally-focused work.

How much experience does he have?

Tom has 30 years of experience as a counselor working with adults on emotional and relationship problems.

What are his credentials and location?

He is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) holding a Missouri LPC and practices from Missouri.

Can I work with him if I live outside the United States?

Sessions are offered in English and he does not accept international clients currently.

What session formats does he offer?

Confirm the current session options before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location. Sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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