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Shelley Aeschliman

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Shelley Aeschliman, LPC

Wisconsin

Licensed Professional Counselor - Relationships and Mood

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Where Shelley stands

Credentials
LPC
License
LPC, Wisconsin / 4841-125
NPI
1063720332
Experience
14 years
Languages
English
Location
Wisconsin

About

  • Codependency related concerns
  • CBT and DBT methods
  • Client-centered approach

About Shelley

Shelley Aeschliman is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Wisconsin with 14 years of experience. She helps people who struggle with anxiety, depression, relationship problems, trauma and abuse, low motivation, and self-esteem concerns. Shelley also works with issues often linked to codependency such as attachment and abandonment worries, communication and control problems, and commitment difficulties.

Shelley uses familiar, straightforward methods in sessions. She draws on client-centered work to listen and respond to what matters most to each person. She also uses cognitive behavioral strategies to identify unhelpful thoughts and test new ways of coping. Dialectical behavior ideas can be used when someone needs concrete skills for managing strong emotions.

Her approach focuses on practical steps rather than labels. Sessions often include talking through recent events, trying small behavior changes, and practicing communication or boundaries. Shelley emphasizes clear, respectful interaction and keeps the pace appropriate to each person.

Her background includes years of direct clinical work and teaching, which she uses to support people facing repeated patterns in relationships or mood. She frames problems in everyday terms and looks for realistic first steps people can try between sessions. Shelley asks straightforward questions and gives tangible suggestions rather than abstract theories.

People who contact her should expect a collaborative, down-to-earth process. She will work with someone to set short-term goals and adjust strategies as progress is made. The initial steps include a brief intake to identify the most pressing concerns and plan the first sessions.

How sessions work

How therapy approaches translate online

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and responding to what matters most to the person. Online sessions using this approach center on the client's priorities, with the therapist reflecting concerns and helping set straightforward goals. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, breaks down distressing thoughts and habits into manageable parts. In an online session CBT often includes tracking thought patterns, testing small behavior changes, and practicing new skills between meetings. Dialectical Behavior Therapy, DBT, provides concrete tools for regulating strong emotions and handling conflict. When used online it may involve learning short skills for distress tolerance and emotion regulation that can be practiced in day-to-day life.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with the client to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. That choice can shift over time as progress is made or new priorities emerge.

Specific session formats are not listed in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Many people find that remote sessions help fit therapy into busy schedules, allow for shorter check-ins when needed, or reduce travel time. Online work can make it easier to try strategies between meetings and bring real-life situations into conversation without promising any particular format.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

14+ years

Listed in

Wisconsin

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of relationship problems does she help with?

Shelley works with communication problems, commitment issues, attachment and abandonment concerns, and patterns linked to codependency.

How would she describe her therapeutic style?

She uses a client-centered style with practical techniques from CBT and DBT to address thoughts, emotions, and behaviors.

How much experience does she have?

Shelley has 14 years of clinical experience working with mood, trauma, relationship, and behavioral health concerns.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) licensed in Wisconsin and provides services from that state.

Do sessions take place in other languages or for people abroad?

Sessions are offered in English and she is not accepting international clients at this time.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as specific formats are not listed in the biography.

How does payment or cost work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin working together?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the therapist supplied to BetterHelp. A license can be checked with the state board.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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