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Borbala (Bee) Shehata-Jakab

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Borbala (Bee) Shehata-Jakab, BACP, NCPS

United Kingdom

Counsellor - relationships and identity

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Where Borbala stands

Credentials
BACP, NCPS
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 386518; NCPS, United Kingdom / NCS20-02395
Experience
5 years
Languages
English, Hungarian
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Identity exploration
  • Attachment work
  • Codependency issues

About Borbala

Borbala (Bee) Shehata-Jakab is a counsellor registered with BACP and NCPS in the United Kingdom with five years' experience working with adults. She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, identity questions and grief. Bee also supports people facing parenting pressures, career decisions and coping with life changes.

She uses an integrative style that draws on several approaches. That means she can use Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Attachment-Based work and Emotionally-Focused ideas, among others, depending on what seems most useful. Sessions often focus on how early relationships and attachment patterns shape current problems and reactions.

In practice she offers straightforward techniques alongside reflective conversation. This can include journaling, guided imagery, chair work or talking through dreams when that feels helpful. These methods are optional and used to clarify feelings, test out different responses and practise new ways of relating.

Bee pays close attention to identity and personality in the setting of relationships. She helps people notice patterns such as people-pleasing, difficulty saying no, or losing themselves around someone else's moods. Work is practical - noticing patterns, trying small changes, and checking what makes things better or harder.

Sessions are conducted in English and Hungarian. People interested in working with her are asked to follow the service steps to complete a short matching questionnaire and book a first session.

How sessions work

How her approaches translate to online counselling

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them. It focuses on committing to actions that reflect personal values, which can help with anxiety, low mood and finding direction. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships affect current patterns. It helps people spot repeated reactions in relationships, such as people-pleasing or fear of abandonment, and practise different ways of relating.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. She will discuss options with each person and decide together which methods to try first. That collaborative process includes checking what feels useful and adjusting the focus if something isn’t helping.

Confirm the session formats offered before booking, as these are not specified here. In general, online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when that suits a schedule. They also allow exercises such as guided journaling and imagery to be done between meetings, so practical work can continue outside sessions. Registered or accredited professionals and therapists often use these benefits to help clients work on boundaries, identity and relationship patterns while keeping the process manageable.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Hungarian

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, grief and identity questions. Additional focus areas include parenting, career, trauma and codependency-related patterns.

How would she describe her therapeutic style?

She works in an integrative way, mixing conversational work with practical techniques. Approaches she draws on include CBT, attachment-based ideas and emotionally-focused methods.

How much experience does she have?

She has five years of clinical experience working with adults on relationship and identity concerns. That experience informs how she blends different approaches in sessions.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with BACP and NCPS and practises in the United Kingdom. These credentials are shown as supplied.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Hungarian.

Does she work with international clients?

She does not currently accept international clients.

How are sessions arranged and what formats are offered?

Confirm current session formats before booking by following the service steps. The sign-up process includes a short questionnaire and scheduling a first session.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time. Exact fees are provided during the booking steps.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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