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Benjamin ('Beni') Fleischer

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Benjamin ('Beni') Fleischer, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - relationships and stress

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Where Benjamin stands

Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 392500
Experience
6 years
Languages
English, Hebrew, Yiddish
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Client-Centred Therapy
  • Psychodynamic Therapy
  • Solution-Focused Therapy

About Benjamin

Benjamin ('Beni') Fleischer is a BACP counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with six years' experience. He helps people dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, depression and coping with life changes, including grief, trauma and issues linked to family and codependency.

Beni describes a focus on the relationship people have with themselves. He looks at the parts of life that are obvious and the parts that are hidden beneath the surface - background, personality, family, community and belief. He talks through how those hidden influences shape behaviour and choices.

Sessions aim to make difficult feelings and patterns clearer. He uses talking, reflection and steady inquiry to help people notice how they react and why. The work is practical and paced to the individual rather than rushed.

His approach draws on client-centred ideas, psychodynamic thinking and solution-focused techniques. That means time is spent listening to personal experience, exploring recurring patterns from the past, and identifying small changes that make daily life easier.

Beni has worked with people across varied backgrounds, including experience within the NHS. He notes a particular interest in supporting men in mid-life, while also working with a broader range of adults. He offers sessions in English, Hebrew and Yiddish.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and online working

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on being listened to without judgement. The therapist follows the client's account, reflects what they hear and supports people to find their own understanding of problems. This approach helps with issues of self-esteem, feeling lost and rebuilding a sense of direction.

Psychodynamic Therapy looks at recurring patterns that come from earlier life and relationships. It helps make sense of why certain reactions keep happening and how past experiences shape present choices, which can be useful for anger, abandonment fears and long-standing relationship patterns.

Solution-Focused Therapy concentrates on small, practical steps and what changes would look like day to day. It is helpful when someone wants quick, achievable ways to reduce stress or manage anxiety without getting overwhelmed.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, what feels most helpful and try different ways of working together. That decision is collaborative and can change as the work develops.

Confirm the session options before you book, as formats are not specified here. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, require less travel and allow shorter check-ins when time is limited. Registered or accredited professionals often find online sessions a practical way to continue regular work while balancing day-to-day commitments.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefAnger managementBipolar disorder

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAvoidant personalityCancerCodependencyCommitment issuesControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSexual dysfunctionSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Hebrew, Yiddish

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Can he help with people-pleasing and setting boundaries?

Yes. He works with issues like difficulty saying no, people-pleasing and codependency as part of relationship and self-esteem work.

What is his style in sessions?

He combines listening with gentle inquiry, reflecting on patterns and suggesting small practical steps. The style mixes client-centred listening, psychodynamic exploration and solution-focused steps.

How long has he practised?

He has six years of counselling experience, including work within the NHS and with a variety of backgrounds.

What credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is registered with the BACP and works in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English, Hebrew and Yiddish.

Can international clients work with him?

International clients are accepted; check practical arrangements when you begin the process.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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