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Thomas Wolff

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Thomas Wolff, LPC

Oklahoma

Licensed Professional Counselor - Codependency and Trauma

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Where Thomas stands

Credentials
LPC
License
LPC, Oklahoma / LPC02210
NPI
1346275609
Experience
34 years
Languages
English
Location
Oklahoma

About

  • CBT methods
  • EMDR for trauma
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

About Thomas

Thomas Wolff is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Oklahoma with 34 years of experience. He works with adults on stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, depression, addictions, relationship and family concerns, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleep and eating problems, parenting, career questions, bipolar disorder, and coping with life changes. Thomas also focuses on codependency, attachment and abandonment issues, caregiver stress, chronic illness and pain, and loneliness.

Thomas uses clear, straightforward conversations to identify what feels stuck. He blends Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) with Client-Centered approaches to help people notice patterns and make concrete changes. He also draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) ideas and offers Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) for trauma-related distress.

Sessions often involve setting simple small goals between meetings. Thomas helps people practice new ways of saying no, managing urges, and reconnecting to their own priorities. He treats symptoms like panic, low mood, sleep disruption, and grief through step-by-step work rather than abstract theory.

He has worked with people across a wide age range and with a variety of life challenges. Thomas aims to be direct and practical in sessions, offering tools people can try right away. He invites questions about methods and adjusts the pace to each person’s comfort.

For people who have spent a lot of energy caring for others, Thomas focuses on restoring a sense of choice. He helps clients notice patterns of putting others first and practice alternative responses that protect their wellbeing over time.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and online sessions

Thomas draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help people notice and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. CBT breaks problems into manageable steps and is often used for anxiety, depression, and sleep or eating difficulties.

He also uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) ideas that focus on clarifying personal values and taking committed actions toward them. ACT can help when someone feels stuck between wanting change and fear of it.

EMDR is offered as a trauma-focused option for people who have distress tied to upsetting memories. It involves structured processing of those memories to reduce their emotional charge and can be useful for post-traumatic stress symptoms.

Finding the right approach is part of the first conversations. Thomas will work with each person to decide which methods fit their needs, goals, and comfort level. That choice is made together and can be adjusted over time.

The biography does not list specific online session formats, so confirm the current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy life, shorten travel and wait times, and allow shorter check-ins when a full session is not needed. Therapists can use different approaches in online sessions to focus on skills practice, processing trauma, or planning steps to change daily routines.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Imago Relationship TherapyMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

34+ years

Listed in

Oklahoma

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Will he help with people-pleasing and boundary issues?

Yes. He works with patterns like people-pleasing and difficulty saying no and helps people practice clearer boundaries.

What is his general therapy style?

He uses a straightforward, practical style that combines talking, skill practice, and short between-session goals.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has 34 years of professional experience working with a wide range of concerns, including trauma, mood difficulties, and addiction.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) licensed in Oklahoma.

Does he offer sessions in other languages?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with him?

He does accept international clients.

How are sessions arranged and what formats are available?

The biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How does payment work and what does it cost?

Cost varies by location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

Details come from information the therapist supplied to BetterHelp. A license can be checked with the state board.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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