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Rekeeshella Elder

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Rekeeshella Elder, LMFT

California

LMFT - Relationships and Stress

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Where Rekeeshella stands

Credentials
LMFT
License
LMFT, California / 149945
NPI
1952195125
Experience
9 years
Languages
English
Location
California

About

  • Codependency work
  • Boundary skills
  • ACT and CBT methods

About Rekeeshella

Rekeeshella Elder is a California-licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) with nine years of clinical experience. She works with adults who struggle with stress, anxiety, relationship problems, family conflict, grief, and low self-esteem. She also helps people who face attachment concerns, abandonment fears, blended family challenges, caregiver stress, chronic illness, and codependency.

Her approach is practical and conversational. Sessions focus on clear goals and doable steps rather than long explanations. She uses techniques from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice thoughts and choose actions that align with their values.

She draws on Client-Centered Therapy and Emotionally-Focused Therapy when relationships and feelings are central. That means time in session is often spent naming emotions, tracking interaction patterns, and practicing new ways to respond. Solution-Focused Therapy is used to build small changes that add up over time.

People can expect a direct but respectful style. The therapist listens, reflects, and offers specific tools for setting boundaries, managing anxiety, and handling triggers tied to family of origin or caregiving roles. Sessions also address practical problems like communication and commitment issues.

Rekeeshella keeps explanations simple and skills-oriented. She helps people practice boundary-setting, build self-respect, and manage the stress that comes from living around another person’s moods or crises.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches used in online sessions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps clarify personal values and teaches simple practices to act in line with those values even when emotions or thoughts feel overwhelming. It can help people who struggle with people-pleasing or avoidance by focusing on meaningful action.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at unhelpful thought patterns and swaps in small behavioral experiments to change how people feel. It is often used for anxiety, stress, and low self-esteem and gives step-by-step tools to try between sessions.

Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) is used when relationship dynamics and attachment needs are central. It guides people to name core emotions and try new ways of interacting to shift recurring patterns that fuel conflict or withdrawal.

Choosing which approach to use is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with the client to identify goals, try methods, and adjust techniques based on what helps most. That collaborative process helps decide whether ACT, CBT, EFT, or a mix best fits the situation.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online care can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, shorten travel time, and allow for check-ins that focus on skill practice. It also makes it simpler to continue work while managing caregiving, health, or scheduling constraints.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefSelf esteem

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersSelf-harmSelf-loveWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Solution-Focused Therapy

Experience

9+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship and family issues, grief, and low self-esteem. Additional focuses include codependency, attachment and blended family issues.

How would she approach people-pleasing and boundaries?

She uses practical skills from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help name patterns and practice saying no. Sessions include concrete exercises for boundary-setting and communication.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has nine years of professional work experience as a therapist. That experience includes working with grief, caregiver stress, chronic illness, and family of origin issues.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, licensed in California. Her practice is located in California.

Does she offer sessions in other languages?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the US work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted. Therapy is offered to people within the therapist's regional practice limits.

How are sessions paid for?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time. Specific pricing depends on the chosen plan and region.

What are the steps to begin working together?

Click the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session. The questionnaire helps match goals and practical details before the first visit.

Details come from information the therapist supplied to BetterHelp. A license can be checked with the state board.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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