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Michelle Harmolin

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Michelle Harmolin, LPC

New Jersey

Licensed counselor - Relationships and codependency

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Where Michelle stands

Credentials
LPC
License
LPC, New Jersey / 37PC00824000
NPI
1053918573
Experience
8 years
Languages
English
Location
New Jersey

About

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Codependency focus
  • CBT and DBT methods

About Michelle

Michelle Harmolin is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in New Jersey with eight years of experience. She helps people deal with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, addictions, parenting concerns, and codependency. She also supports people facing grief, identity questions, and compassion fatigue.

Michelle uses straightforward conversations to help clients notice patterns that keep them stuck. She listens for how avoidance, fear of abandonment, or people-pleasing show up in daily life. Sessions include practical skills for managing strong emotions and clearer ways to ask for what someone needs.

Her work draws on client-centered ideas that prioritize the person’s goals. She combines that with cognitive behavioral tools to challenge unhelpful thinking and dialectical behavior therapy skills to handle intense feelings. Mindfulness and motivational interviewing methods are used when they fit the client's goals and readiness.

Michelle brings an affirming approach to questions of gender and sexual identity. She aims to help LGBTQ+ people and young adults sort through relationship patterns, communication problems, and identity stressors. Her perspective pays attention to cultural background and how it shapes behavior and expectations.

Sessions focus on concrete steps and small changes that are sustainable. Michelle supports people who want to set boundaries, reduce people-pleasing, cope with a partner's substance use, or recover a sense of self after loss or chronic relationship strain.

How sessions work

How therapeutic approaches are used in online sessions

Client-centered therapy focuses on what matters to the person. The therapist listens without directing and helps the client set their own goals. This approach helps when someone is trying to understand identity, values, or relationship patterns.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going. It uses practical exercises to test unhelpful beliefs and build new habits. CBT is useful for anxiety, depression, and habits tied to people-pleasing or avoidance.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy, or DBT, offers clear skills for managing intense emotion and improving relationships. It includes short, teachable strategies for distress tolerance and emotional regulation that many people use between sessions.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with the client to decide which methods fit their goals, pace, and preferences. That decision can change over time as progress is made.

Session logistics should be confirmed before booking since formats are not listed here. Ask which online options are offered and how they fit your schedule. Online sessions can make it easier to attend therapy around work, caregiving, or a busy routine, and they can allow for shorter check-ins or video meetings when needed.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMood disordersMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Listed in

New Jersey

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, addictions, parenting issues, grief, and codependency-related patterns.

What is her therapeutic style?

Sessions are conversational and goal-focused, blending client-centered listening with practical skills from CBT and DBT.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has eight years of experience as a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC).

Where is she licensed and based?

She is licensed as an LPC in New Jersey and practices from that state.

Can I work with her if English is not my first language?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

What are the session formats?

Session formats are not specified here; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are costs handled and how do I start?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To get started, select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the therapist supplied to BetterHelp. A license can be checked with the state board.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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