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Kate Clare

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Kate Clare, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP therapist - Relationships and codependency

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Where Kate stands

Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 403008
Experience
5 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Trauma and abuse
  • Neurodiversity aware

About Kate

Kate Clare is a BACP-registered therapist practising in the United Kingdom with five years of professional experience. She works with people facing stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, relationship strain, family conflict, grief and low self-esteem. She also supports people dealing with codependency concerns and issues linked to neurodiversity.

Her approach treats the client as the expert in their own life. Sessions focus on what the person brings and build on their existing strengths. Conversations are straightforward and practical, aimed at helping people spot patterns and make small, manageable changes.

Kate uses a mix of approaches to suit different needs. Cognitive behavioural techniques help with unhelpful thoughts and behaviours. Narrative methods look at the stories people tell about themselves and how those stories can change. Psychodynamic ideas can be used to notice recurring patterns from earlier relationships.

She also draws on client-centred and solution-focused ways of working. That means listening closely, prioritising what matters now, and setting reachable goals together. The style tends to be direct and collaborative rather than prescriptive.

Kate has professional and personal experience with neurodiversity and mentions that openly in her work. People who have lived with long-term caregiving, chronic illness, or complex family dynamics may find those experiences are understood and addressed in sessions.

How sessions work

How Kate’s therapeutic approaches work online

Client-Centred Therapy places the person and their priorities at the heart of the work. The counsellor listens without directing, and sessions focus on what the client says matters most. This approach suits people who need a space to name their experience and decide next steps at their own pace.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is practical and problem-focused. It helps identify unhelpful thoughts and behaviours and replace them with different ways of responding. CBT can be useful for anxiety, low mood and daily patterns that keep someone stuck.

Kate will work with the client to choose approaches that fit their needs. Figuring out the right mix is collaborative - she checks in about what helps and what does not, and adapts the plan over time.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm the current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy around busy days, reduce travel time, and allow a shorter check-in option when needed. Many people find remote sessions help them keep continuity of work while balancing family, work and other commitments.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementDepressionADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Narrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Does she help with people-pleasing and boundary issues?

Yes. She lists relationship strain, codependency and communication problems among the concerns she works with and uses approaches that support setting boundaries.

What is her overall way of working?

She treats the client as the expert in their story and combines listening with practical techniques to change unhelpful patterns.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has five years of professional experience working with stress, trauma, grief and related issues.

What are her professional credentials and location?

She is a BACP Therapist and a Registered Member MBACP based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK contact her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions paid for and what do costs look like?

Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

What do I do to start working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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