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Nelly Leenman

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Nelly Leenman, LPC

New Jersey

Licensed Professional Counselor - Codependency and Anxiety

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Where Nelly stands

Credentials
LPC
License
LPC, New Jersey / 37PC00822700
NPI
1376281717
Experience
8 years
Languages
English, Dutch
Location
New Jersey

About

  • ACT and CBT
  • Motivational interviewing
  • Attachment work

About Nelly

Nelly Leenman is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in New Jersey with eight years of experience. She works with people facing stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, depression, relationship and intimacy challenges, and codependency concerns.

She keeps sessions direct and practical. Conversations focus on what is happening now and what the client wants to change. She uses techniques that help people notice thoughts and patterns, try new behaviors, and build everyday coping skills.

Her approach pulls from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to address unhelpful thinking and increase values-based action. Attachment-based ideas are used when relationship patterns and past bonds shape current struggles. Motivational Interviewing helps when someone feels stuck or unsure about making changes.

Nelly has worked across healthcare settings and brings that variety into session planning. She speaks English and Dutch and has supported people with issues such as addiction, domestic violence, illness and end-of-life concerns, immigration stress, and loneliness.

Sessions tend to be collaborative and goal-focused. Clients set priorities and track small steps between meetings. The therapist aims to help people build boundaries, manage reactivity, and strengthen the capacity to cope with life’s changes.

To begin, prospective clients use the site matching flow to schedule a first session. Fees vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How sessions work

How her approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose actions that match their values. It is often used for anxiety, low mood, and patterns like people-pleasing. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying and testing thinking habits and practicing small behavior changes between sessions. It is useful for anxiety, depression, sleeping problems, and stress management.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t helped before. Together they decide which methods to try and adjust them as needed during follow-up sessions.

The therapist’s biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm available online options before booking. In general, online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into work breaks, reduce travel time, and allow a shorter check-in when schedules are tight. Licensed professionals can adapt ACT and CBT exercises for remote meetings, using brief homework, thought records, and value-guided goals that clients practice between sessions. If you need clarification on formats, check the booking flow or ask when you complete the matching questionnaire.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesCancerCodependencyCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionForgivenessGuilt and shameHearing impairedHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMoney and financial issuesNarcissismPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Motivational InterviewingTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Listed in

New Jersey

Languages

English, Dutch

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address related to codependency patterns?

She helps people who repeatedly put others first, struggle to say no, or feel lost in relationships. Specific areas include codependency, boundaries, intimacy-related issues, and relationship conflict.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

The style is direct and collaborative. She uses practical techniques to notice thinking patterns and try new behaviors between sessions.

What is her professional background?

She has eight years of professional experience working in a range of healthcare settings. That experience informs how she plans sessions and sets goals.

What credential and location should I know about?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) licensed in New Jersey and practices from that state.

Which languages are offered for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Dutch. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Confirm current session options before booking so you know how meetings will be held.

How does cost work for therapy with her?

Fees vary with location. Sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start a first session?

Select the "See online therapy options" button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session through the site flow.

Details come from information the therapist supplied to BetterHelp. A license can be checked with the state board.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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