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Melinda Miller

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Melinda Miller, LMFT

California

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - Codependency and Anxiety

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Where Melinda stands

Credentials
LMFT
License
LMFT, California / 110498
NPI
1295092443
Experience
13 years
Languages
English
Location
California

About

  • Codependency support
  • CBT and ACT
  • Mindfulness practice

About Melinda

Melinda Miller is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) licensed in California with 13 years of clinical experience. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, anger, addictions, and codependency concerns. She also supports people coping with parenting challenges, trauma and abuse, ADHD, and major life changes.

Melinda begins by listening and building a collaborative relationship. She uses a client-centered stance to help people feel heard and to set therapy goals together. Sessions focus on practical skills and clearer communication rather than labels or judgments.

She draws on cognitive behavioral therapy to identify unhelpful thinking and on acceptance and commitment therapy to clarify values and willingness to act. Mindfulness tools are used to reduce reactivity and increase present-moment awareness. Emotionally-focused ideas are brought in when relationships and attachment patterns are part of the concern.

In a typical session Melinda helps people notice patterns like people-pleasing, difficulty saying no, and living around someone else’s moods or drinking. She works on setting boundaries, managing stress, and strengthening a person’s sense of self. Therapy includes short exercises, reflection, and action steps to try between sessions.

Her background includes a bachelor’s degree in psychology and a master’s degree in clinical psychology. The profile reflects work across varied ages, cultural backgrounds, and life situations, with attention to family of origin and adoption-related issues.

How sessions work

How her therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Melinda uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice what matters to them and take small steps toward those values even when emotions are difficult. ACT supports work on patterns like people-pleasing by separating actions from unhelpful thoughts and increasing willingness to try new behavior.

She also applies Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to spot thinking habits that feed anxiety, depression, or conflict. CBT sessions include practical exercises and short behavioral experiments to test different responses to stress and relationship triggers. Mindfulness techniques are woven into sessions to reduce reactivity and strengthen awareness of internal experiences.

Choosing the right approach is collaborative. Melinda will discuss options with each person and recommend what to try first based on goals, preferences, and what shows up in early sessions. Adjustments are made over time so work stays useful and realistic.

Confirm current session formats before booking, as this profile does not list specific options. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, allow for shorter check-ins when needed, and avoid travel time. Many people find video or phone sessions helpful for practicing real-life boundary or communication work between meetings.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issuesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAttachment issuesCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

13+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with related to codependency?

She supports adults dealing with people-pleasing, trouble saying no, losing themselves in relationships, and living around someone else’s drinking or moods.

What is her therapy style like?

She starts with a client-centered approach to build a working connection and then uses practical strategies from CBT, ACT, and mindfulness to address daily patterns.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has been working as a therapist since 2013, giving her about 13 years of experience in clinical settings.

What credentials and region does she practice in?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) licensed in California.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are session costs handled?

Session cost varies by location and are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What is the first step to begin working together?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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