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Helen Lamming

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Helen Lamming, NCPS

United Kingdom

Counsellor - Relationships and parenting

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Where Helen stands

Credentials
NCPS
Registration
NCPS, United Kingdom / NCS23-02822
Experience
11 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Attachment work
  • Emotion-focused
  • Trauma-informed

About Helen

Helen Lamming NCPS is a counsellor in the United Kingdom with 11 years' experience. She focuses on relationship and family concerns, intimacy-related issues, parenting, anger and related difficulties such as attachment, communication and codependency. Helen offers online sessions and accepts international clients.

She adopts a practical, person-focused approach that puts a client's own experience first. Sessions tend to look at patterns in relationships, how early family dynamics affect current choices, and ways to manage strong emotions. Helen draws on methods that help people describe what matters, notice repeated behaviours, and try out different responses.

Her background includes lengthy roles at a relationship counselling service where she worked with a wide range of relationship and family difficulties. She holds professional accreditation with NCPS, a CPCAB Certificate of Proficiency and Relate diplomas in relationship and family counselling. She also has postgraduate study in the psychology of education and a teaching qualification.

Helen has logged over 4,000 counselling hours and receives regular clinical supervision. She offers both short-term agreements for a set number of sessions and open-ended work. People often bring problems such as difficulties with commitment, managing anger around family issues, separating after a relationship, or feeling overwhelmed by others' needs.

Before booking, confirm the current online session options. To begin clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session via the See online therapy options button.

How sessions work

Therapy approaches and how online sessions work

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early relationships shape current patterns. It helps people notice how they respond when they feel threatened in relationships and develop more reliable ways of asking for what they need. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) works with the feelings that sit under repeated relationship patterns. It helps people identify, express and reorganise emotional responses so interactions change in practical ways. Client-Centred Therapy gives space for the client to set the pace and priorities, with the counsellor reflecting back what matters most to the person.

Finding the right combination of approaches is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals and preferences and decide together which methods to try first. That means sessions are collaborative and can shift focus as needs change.

The biography describes online counselling as Helen's mode of practice but does not specify exact formats. Please confirm the current session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy life, reduce travel time, and allow shorter or more flexible meeting times when needed. Some approaches suit talking and focusing on feelings, while others include structured tasks between sessions; Helen will explain how a chosen method will shape your online meetings.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger management

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesGender dysphoriaHIV / AIDSInfidelityIntellectual disabilityJealousyMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsNarcissismPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Sexual assault and abuseYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Trauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

11+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of relationship or intimacy concerns does she help with?

She works with relationship and intimacy-related issues including communication problems, commitment concerns and the effects of family of origin issues.

What is her therapeutic style?

She uses client-centred practice alongside attachment-based and emotionally-focused ideas, working collaboratively to understand patterns and feelings in relationships.

How much experience does she have?

She has 11 years of professional experience and more than 4,000 hours of counselling practice, including work at a relationship counselling service.

What credentials and location apply?

She holds NCPS accreditation and CPCAB qualifications, and she works from the United Kingdom.

Are sessions available in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

Which session formats does she offer?

The original biography states she offers online counselling; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are costs handled?

Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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