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Dorcas Upshall

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Dorcas Upshall, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - relationships and codependency

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Where Dorcas stands

Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 406848
Experience
3 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Client-Centred approach
  • Cognitive Behavioural Therapy
  • Kink aware practice

About Dorcas

Dorcas Upshall is a BACP counsellor in the United Kingdom with three years of experience. She focuses on common pressures such as stress, anxiety, depression and relationship strain, and she also works with issues around addiction, intimacy and codependency. Sessions are described as collaborative - the client's goals guide the work.

Dorcas talks through thought patterns and behaviours that get in the way. She helps people notice what keeps repeating and tries out small changes. That can mean practical tools to manage anxiety, thinking work to challenge unhelpful beliefs, or conversations about past experiences that still affect day-to-day life.

Her background includes work in domestic abuse services, women’s centres, LGBTQ+ charities and addiction and recovery settings. She has experience in pastoral care at schools and in special needs provisions, and she previously worked as a teacher for over ten years. These roles shaped how she listens and responds in counselling.

Dorcas is kink-aware and comfortable with a range of relationship arrangements. She also notes experience with issues such as attachment, body image, shame, infidelity and men’s issues. That makes her practice relevant to people dealing with intimacy, identity or complicated relationship patterns.

Her stated approaches include Client-Centred Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Internal Family Systems. In sessions she aims to work collaboratively, helping clients develop clearer emotional awareness and practical ways to act differently when old patterns emerge.

How sessions work

How her approaches translate to online work

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on the client's experience. The counsellor listens without judgement and follows what matters most to the person. This helps when someone needs a space to name feelings, identity concerns or relationship struggles.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at links between thoughts, feelings and actions. It offers practical techniques to test unhelpful beliefs and try new behaviours, which can help with anxiety, low mood and persistent self-critical thinking.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Dorcas will discuss different ways of working and decide together which fits the client's goals and preferences. That collaborative check-in can happen in the early sessions and be revisited as needed.

Practical benefits of online work can include easier fitting of sessions around work, study or caregiving and options for shorter check-ins when life is busy. The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm the available online options before booking. Many people find online sessions help keep therapy consistent while balancing everyday demands.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issues

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsGriefEating disordersAnger managementSelf esteemDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Can she help with people-pleasing and codependent patterns?

Yes. She lists codependency and relationship concerns among her areas and works with thought patterns and behaviours that repeat in relationships.

What is her style in sessions?

She describes a collaborative, goal-led way of working where the client's aims guide each session and practical tools are used alongside talking.

How much experience does she bring?

She has three years' experience as a counsellor and prior work in schools and teaching spanning over ten years.

What professional credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the BACP and is based in the United Kingdom.

Does she work in languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She accepts international clients.

What are the session formats and costs?

Session formats are not specified in the biography; confirm current session options before booking. Costs vary by location and use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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