Therapist listings are provided by BetterHelp. We will earn a commission at no additional cost to you if you use our links to purchase.

Bonita Zammit

Counsellor profile

Bonita Zammit, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - relationships and trauma

Continue with Bonita

Where Bonita stands

Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 186504
Experience
14 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Attachment-based
  • Client-centred
  • Psychodynamic thinking

About Bonita

Bonita Zammit is a counsellor registered with the BACP and has practised for 14 years in the United Kingdom. She works with adults on relationship and family concerns, along with issues such as anxiety, depression, addiction and trauma. Bonita also supports people facing parenting stress, problems with intimacy, and struggles around self-esteem and boundaries.

She trained to Advanced Diploma level as an integrative counsellor in 2007 and has kept up professional development since. Her work has included sessions at a women’s centre supporting survivors of domestic abuse, group work such as the Freedom Programme, private practice, a GP centre and a prison setting. That breadth of experience shapes how she listens and responds to people’s concerns.

Bonita uses Attachment-Based ideas alongside a client-centred stance and psychodynamic thinking. In practice this means she pays attention to how past relationships affect current ones, follows the person’s pace, and looks at patterns that repeat. Sessions are conversational and focused on what the client brings.

People commonly come to her with struggles linked to abandonment, codependency, blended family tensions, jealousy, narcissistic dynamics, sexual assault and abuse, or domestic violence. She also supports those dealing with hoarding, guilt and shame, isolation and loss.

In a typical session Bonita listens for recurring relationship patterns, helps name painful feelings, and works with the person to try out small changes. She asks practical questions and reflects observations back so clients can make clearer choices about relationships and coping.

To begin she asks people to complete a short matching questionnaire and then arrange a first session. The process is straightforward and aimed at helping people find a working way forward.

How sessions work

How her approaches guide online work

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early bonds influence present relationships. It helps when patterns of closeness, distance or worrying about others keep repeating. Client-Centred Therapy focuses on the person’s own perspective and priorities. Sessions using this approach are led by what the person brings and by careful listening. Psychodynamic Therapy pays attention to recurring feelings and the stories people tell about themselves. It supports understanding how past experiences shape current reactions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will explore goals and preferences with the person and together decide which methods feel most helpful. That collaborative conversation helps shape session focus and next steps.

Confirm the session formats before booking as the biography notes prior work face to face, online and by telephone but does not list current offerings explicitly. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins, or remove the need to travel. It can also help when someone prefers not to be on camera or needs a lower bandwidth option. Registered or accredited professionals can adapt these approaches to online settings while working with the client’s practical constraints and goals.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsTrauma and abuseEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepression

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCodependencyDomestic violenceFamily problemsGuilt and shameHoardingIsolation / lonelinessJealousyNarcissismSelf-loveSexual assault and abuse

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What relationship and intimacy issues does she help with?

She works with adults on relationship difficulties, intimacy-related concerns, codependency and problems stemming from past attachment wounds.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her approach combines Attachment-Based ideas, client-centred listening and psychodynamic thinking to notice repeating patterns and emotional responses.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has practised for 14 years and has worked in a women’s centre, a GP centre, a prison and private practice.

What are her professional credentials and base?

She is registered with the BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats does she offer?

The original biography lists face to face, online and telephone working historically. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How are sessions paid for?

Cost varies with location and sessions operate through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Choose the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule an initial session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

Back to all therapists

Bonita Zammit

Continue with Bonita