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Stephen Hossack

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Stephen Hossack, ACA

Australia

ACA counsellor - Relationships and Codependency

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Where Stephen stands

Credentials
ACA
Registration
ACA, Australia / 8113
Experience
16 years
Languages
English
Location
Australia

About

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Attachment patterns
  • Communication skills

About Stephen

Stephen Hossack is an ACA counsellor in Australia with 16 years of professional experience. He works with people who are struggling with stress, anxiety, relationship and family issues, grief and loss, self-esteem and motivation. He also helps those dealing with trauma, intimacy concerns, parenting pressures and career stress.

Stephen keeps sessions straightforward. He invites people to talk about what is hard and what they want to change. Conversations focus on patterns that keep someone putting others first or feeling stuck. He listens and asks practical questions that help people notice what they do and what they might try differently.

His work often looks at attachment and codependency patterns, communication problems and blended family dynamics. He also supports people facing separation, addiction in a loved one, or the life shifts that follow illness and loss. The emphasis is on clear steps and everyday strategies rather than abstract theory.

People who meet him can expect calm, direct conversation and help to identify small, manageable changes. Sessions can include talking through relationship boundaries, managing anger, and rebuilding self-worth after hurt or shame. He explains options and helps prioritise what to focus on first.

To begin, Stephen asks a few practical questions and agrees goals with each person. That first practical planning step shapes how future sessions are structured. He works in English and with adults who seek clearer patterns and steadier decision-making in their relationships and life.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and how online sessions can work

Stephen draws on evidence-based therapeutic techniques that help people change patterns and manage strong emotions. One common approach focuses on understanding attachment patterns - how early relationship styles shape current reactions. This helps with recurring people-pleasing, fear of rejection and trouble setting boundaries. Another approach targets cognitive and behavioural patterns to reduce anxiety and stress by identifying unhelpful thinking and testing small behavioural changes. That kind of work suits worries, low mood and repetitive relationship habits.

Deciding which approach to use is a shared process. Stephen will discuss options, explain what each method involves, and agree on goals together. He works with each person to try methods and change course if something does not fit or feel useful.

The original profile does not specify session formats, so confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life - for example shorter check-ins during a lunch break, fewer travel demands, or choosing audio-only if bandwidth is limited. These practical benefits often help people keep consistency while they explore patterns like codependency and communication problems.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefSelf esteem

Also works with

Trauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficulties

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBlended family issuesCancerCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

16+ years

Listed in

Australia

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he work with?

He works with stress, anxiety, relationship and family issues, grief, self-esteem, trauma and intimacy-related concerns among others.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He uses straightforward, practical conversation that looks at behaviours and patterns. The focus is on small, manageable changes rather than long theoretical explanations.

How much experience does he have?

He has 16 years of professional experience working with people on relationship, emotional and life transition issues.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is an ACA counsellor based in Australia and works in English.

Does he see people who live outside Australia?

International clients are not currently accepted; he works with people within Australia.

What session formats are offered?

The original profile does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Fees vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I get started?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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