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Alan Hoffman

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Alan Hoffman, LMFT

Washington

LMFT focusing on relationships and stress

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Where Alan stands

Credentials
LMFT
License
LMFT, Washington / LF00001857
NPI
1558665265
Experience
25 years
Languages
English
Location
Washington

About

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Relationship skills
  • Practical homework

About Alan

Alan Hoffman is a Washington LMFT with 25 years of clinical experience. He works with adults who are feeling stuck under stress, dealing with anxiety or depression, struggling in relationships, or managing parenting challenges. He also addresses concerns like codependency, substance use, and issues tied to adoption or blended families.

Alan trained in marriage and family therapy and brings both professional and life experience to sessions. He is a veteran, a spouse, and a parent, and says those roles shape how he talks with people. He keeps conversations direct and down-to-earth rather than full of clinical jargon.

His practice emphasizes practical, skill-based work. He often uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and the Gottman Method so clients can try specific strategies between sessions. Homework may include short readings, worksheets, or brief exercises to practice new ways of responding.

Sessions are goal-oriented and tend to be solution-focused. Early meetings clarify what the person wants to change and identify small, doable steps. Alan aims to leave each appointment with a few concrete suggestions for what to try until the next meeting.

People who contact him can expect a straightforward approach that combines proven methods with everyday language. He invites a first session to discuss goals and to see whether his style is a good fit for the person seeking help.

How sessions work

How Alan blends practical approaches for remote work

Alan commonly uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and the Gottman Method in straightforward, applied ways. CBT focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors to reduce anxiety and mood problems. It is useful for stress, worry, and changes in everyday reactions. The Gottman Method targets relationship patterns and communication skills by helping people notice interactions, practice different responses, and build clearer agreements.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Alan discusses options with each person, listens to goals, and suggests methods that seem to fit. Decisions about pacing, exercises, and homework are made together so the plan matches what the person wants to try.

If you are considering remote sessions, confirm the specific session formats before booking since formats are not listed in the profile. Online appointments can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, allow shorter check-ins when schedules demand it, and remove travel time so people can use brief breaks for a session. The focus remains on usable skills and clear steps to practice between meetings.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesParenting issuesSelf esteemDepression

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCodependencyCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Listed in

Washington

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, parenting issues, and related areas such as codependency and substance use.

How does he approach therapy?

His style is practical and goal-oriented, using conversational sessions with clear steps and short between-session tasks.

How long has he been practicing?

He has 25 years of experience as a clinician and has worked with a wide range of relationship and personal problems.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is an LMFT licensed in Washington and practices in that state.

Can I work with him if I live outside the United States?

Sessions are offered in English and he is not accepting international clients at this time.

What session formats are offered?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as formats are not specified in the profile.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies by location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the therapist supplied to BetterHelp. A license can be checked with the state board.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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