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Nisha Irfan

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Nisha Irfan, BACP

United Kingdom

Counsellor - trauma, relationships

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Where Nisha stands

Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom / 117737
Experience
12 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom

About

  • Attachment-based work
  • EMDR practice
  • TRE for tension

About Nisha

Nisha Irfan is a counsellor accredited by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) with 12 years of practice in the United Kingdom. She works with people dealing with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, low self-esteem, depression and relationship and intimacy-related concerns. She also supports people facing issues linked to parenting, sleep problems, career strain, ADHD and codependency.

Nisha trained with a Masters in Counselling and Psychotherapy from the University of Nottingham and holds a Diploma in Clinical Supervision from the Centre for Personal and Professional Development. She follows the BACP Ethical Framework and Professional Conduct Procedure in her practice. That accreditation is noted on her profile as a marker of experience and professional standards.

Her orientation is humanistic, with attention to deep relational work. She describes her practice as trauma informed and uses body-based tools alongside talking therapy. Nisha offers tension, trauma and stress releasing exercises (TRE) to address muscular tension and nervous system regulation.

She also uses eye movement desensitisation and reprocessing (EMDR) to address distress linked to traumatic memories. Cognitive behavioural techniques and mindfulness are part of her approach when helpful for mood, anxiety or unhelpful thinking patterns. The counsellor aims to balance talking, practical exercises and body-focused techniques.

Sessions typically address present problems and past experiences that affect day-to-day life. People who struggle with putting others first, people-pleasing, difficulty saying no, or feeling overwhelmed by someone else’s moods may find practical tools and conversation about boundaries and attachment patterns in her work.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and online sessions

Attachment-based work focuses on how early relationships shape current ways of connecting. It looks at patterns like people-pleasing, trouble saying no, or feeling lost in relationships, and helps people name and change those patterns.

Client-centred therapy puts the person’s experience at the centre of the session. The counsellor listens without directing, reflects what comes up and helps people make sense of their feelings and choices in everyday language.

Eye movement desensitisation and reprocessing (EMDR) uses bilateral stimulation alongside memory work to reduce the intensity of distressing memories. It is often used for trauma-related symptoms and for memories that continue to cause strong emotional reactions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The counsellor will discuss options and decide together which methods fit the person’s goals and preferences. That collaborative process can involve trying different techniques across sessions to see what feels most helpful.

Confirm which session formats are currently offered before booking, as the biography does not list them. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into busy days, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. They also let people choose quieter moments, avoid camera use if preferred, and combine talking with guided practices such as mindfulness or TRE exercises.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBody imageCodependencyCommunication problemsDissociationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesForgivenessIsolation / lonelinessSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatization

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

12+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, depression, low self-esteem and relationship or intimacy-related concerns, among other issues.

How would she work with people who keep putting others first?

Her approach combines humanistic relational work with attachment-based ideas and practical tools to explore boundaries, people-pleasing and codependency patterns.

What is her background and experience?

She has 12 years of experience, a Masters in Counselling and Psychotherapy from the University of Nottingham and a Diploma in Clinical Supervision from CPPD.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is accredited with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and works in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

Sessions are offered in English and she does not accept international clients at this time.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the publicly supplied biography does not specify formats.

How are sessions paid for?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I arrange a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule your first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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