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Julie Lehman

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Julie Lehman, LMFT

California

LMFT focusing on relationships and sexuality

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Where Julie stands

Credentials
LMFT
License
LMFT, California / 109200
NPI
1487072542
Experience
12 years
Languages
English
Location
California

About

  • Relationship concerns
  • Sexuality and kink
  • Codependency patterns

About Julie

Julie Lehman is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in California with 12 years of clinical experience. Julie focuses on relationship concerns and related areas such as codependency, communication problems, and sexuality issues. Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

Julie works with people who are trying to understand how their needs and desires fit within relationships. They help people who struggle with people-pleasing, setting boundaries, jealousy, infidelity, and non-monogamous arrangements. Julie also supports clients dealing with sexual trauma, sexual dysfunction, and issues related to kink, BDSM, or alternative sexual cultures.

The approach centers on listening closely and helping clients name what matters to them in relationships. Julie uses practical conversation to identify patterns that keep people stuck and to try different ways of responding. That can mean practicing clearer requests, testing a new boundary, or talking through a difficult conversation before trying it in real life.

Julie brings attention to identity and access issues when they affect relationships, including gender dysphoria, HIV or AIDS related concerns, chronic illness, and disability. Work may include coping strategies for medical or pain-related stress and adapting relationship expectations to changing health needs.

People who meet with Julie can expect direct discussion about goals and steps to try between sessions. To begin, readers choose the online therapy options, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session using the subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How sessions work

Therapeutic methods and what online work looks like

Julie draws on evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help people shift relationship patterns. One common method is focused conversation work that examines how interactions unfold and how they could change; this helps with communication problems, jealousy, and practicing new requests. Another approach emphasizes skills practice such as boundary-setting exercises and role-play; this is useful for people who struggle with people-pleasing or codependency patterns.

Deciding which approach to use is a collaborative process. Julie will help identify goals, try an approach for a few sessions, and adjust based on what is working. Clients and the therapist choose methods together so the work fits the person's needs and preferences.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm the available online options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight, and remove commute time so clients can focus on the conversation. Many people find that practicing boundary-setting and communication skills remotely helps them apply those skills in daily life without having to rearrange their entire schedule.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issues

Additional focus areas

BDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsGender dysphoriaHIV / AIDSInfidelityJealousyPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualityYoung adult issues

Experience

12+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What relationship issues does Julie help with?

She works with relationship concerns including communication problems, infidelity, jealousy, and non-monogamous arrangements. Codependency and setting boundaries are also listed focus areas.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Julie listens and asks direct questions to clarify patterns in relationships. Sessions focus on practical steps like practicing requests and testing new boundaries.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Julie has 12 years of experience working with adults on relationship and sexuality issues. That experience includes work with people navigating kink, gender, and health-related concerns.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) licensed in California. Her practice location is listed as California.

Can I see her if I live outside the United States?

She accepts international clients. Sessions are provided in English.

What session formats are offered?

The biography does not list specific session formats. Confirm current session options before booking through the platform.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. Specific pricing details are provided when selecting options on the site.

How do I get started with a first session?

Choose the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session through the system.

Details come from information the therapist supplied to BetterHelp. A license can be checked with the state board.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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