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Connie St. James

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Connie St. James, LMFT

California

California LMFT - Relationships and Codependency

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Where Connie stands

Credentials
LMFT
License
LMFT, California / 29176
NPI
1306617816
Experience
3 years
Languages
English
Location
California

About

  • stress and anxiety
  • self esteem work
  • life changes

About Connie

Connie St. James is a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with three years of recent practice experience and a long history of counseling work. She focuses on stress, anxiety, relationships, self-esteem, coping with life changes, grief, anger, career concerns, depression, and codependency. Connie speaks English and works from the perspective of practical problem-solving and conversation.

She trained in marriage, family and child therapy and completed a 3,000-hour internship. Early clinical work included settings such as a psychiatric hospital, a drug and alcohol treatment center, and a facility for abused children. That foundation shaped her approach to relationship problems and anxiety that show up across life roles.

Connie blends person-centered, cognitive, and behavioral ideas in sessions. She listens for the feelings, thoughts, and behaviors that keep someone stuck. Then she and the client look for shifts that reduce distress and increase day-to-day functioning. Sessions are conversational and focused on real-life choices and small changes.

Her background includes private practice work in West Los Angeles and Palm Desert, group facilitation for major depression in a hospital, and many years outside counseling while working in other fields. Those life experiences inform how she supports people dealing with aging, caregiving stress, family problems, and career transitions.

Connie describes therapy as collaborative. She helps people tell their story, notice patterns such as people-pleasing or difficulty with boundaries, and practice different ways of thinking and behaving. Before booking, readers should confirm current session options and the exact session format available.

How sessions work

Approaches used online and how they help

Connie often works from person-centered, cognitive, and behavioral approaches. Person-centered work focuses on listening and reflecting so a person can clarify what matters and name goals. Cognitive methods look at unhelpful thoughts and offer ways to test and change them. Behavioral techniques break patterns into concrete actions to try, which can help with anxiety, mood, and relationship habits.

Finding which approach fits is part of the work. Connie treats the choice as collaborative. She will help clients identify goals, try methods that match those goals, and adjust as needed based on what helps most in day-to-day life.

The practical benefits of online sessions include fitting therapy into a busy schedule and reducing travel time. They can make it easier to have shorter check-ins around work hours or to choose sessions that do not require being on camera. Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm the current options before booking to know which format is offered. Licensed professionals can use online work to help people practice new skills in real situations and to keep progress consistent between appointments.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

GriefAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepression

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDependent personalityDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesSelf-loveWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she focus on?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self-esteem, grief, anger, career decisions, depression, and codependency-related patterns.

How would she describe her therapeutic style?

She uses a conversational, practical approach that draws on person-centered, cognitive, and behavioral ideas to address feelings, thoughts, and behaviors.

What is her clinical background?

She completed a 3,000-hour internship and has experience in psychiatric, substance-use, and child-abuse settings, plus prior private practice work.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a California LMFT and practices in California.

Does she offer sessions in other languages?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the U.S. work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are costs handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What do I do to start a first session?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are not safe at home, use the crisis and helpline numbers.

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